When Your Body Doesn't Feel Sacred (blogcast)
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When Your Body Doesn't Feel Sacred (blogcast)

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In this week’s body theology blog I talk about when your body doesn’t feel sacred. If you’re dealing with a chronic illness, disability, food allergy, burnout, or just don’t feel “good”, then there’s a chance you don’t see just how sacred your body is.

I offer you powerful tips to start seeing every aspect of your body, even the unpleasant ones, as sacred and discuss just how powerful accepting your body however it is at the moment can be.

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This is the Feathermane Soul Blogcast for June

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23rd, 2026.

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This is the body theology blog, when the

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body doesn't feel sacred.

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This blog is going to go out to

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everyone who has a chronic illness, or a

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disability, or a food allergy, body dysphoria, or

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even just burnout and exhaustion.

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Your body is sacred.

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I'm going to get a little academic here

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for a moment and mention that I'm using

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the more secular definitions of sacred, such as

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highly valued and important, or set apart for

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a specific use.

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In this case, your life.

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Basically, I'm meaning sacred in the opposite of

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profane.

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With me, good.

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There are times when the body feels like

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a trap, when we don't feel at our

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best, or we're worrying over some symptom that

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could be just about anything, and we're not

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sure we're going to get proper treatment for

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it, or even if anyone believes us.

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Dealing with chronic illnesses, food allergies that suddenly

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come out of nowhere, it can all feel

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like too much.

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And even if we're used to something, say

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for example a chronic illness, having something new

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crop up, such as a new food allergy,

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hello to my potential alpha-gal diagnosis, we

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can completely turn our world on its end

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while we try to once again negotiate our

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relationship with our body.

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What I'm trying to say is that there

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are times when our body really doesn't feel

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like something important, or something devoted to its

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specific use, which is as a vehicle for

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our lives.

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How does one manage then?

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The first step is to understand the grief

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surrounding your body's form and function.

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Honor the grief, work through the grief, reach

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out for help.

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Most of all, understand that there is nothing

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wrong with grieving the loss of a food

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you once used to enjoy, bacon, or grieving

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the fact that you may not be able

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to do what you once could, or never

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have been able to do something at all.

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And although it's hard, I believe that IDIC,

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the Star Trek saying, infinite diversity in infinite

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combinations, also applies to our bodies, their shapes,

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sizes, and abilities.

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The second step is to think about your

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relationship with sacred.

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Too often, we consider something sacred as being

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set apart and kept for specific times and

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places, such as the good china that only

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comes out when grandma visits.

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Instead, think about sacred as intermingling with our

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everyday lives, and our everyday lives can be

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extremely sacred.

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Imagine the sacredness inherent in your morning cup

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of coffee, the ritual you go through, even

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if you don't think of it as such,

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and making the coffee in the way you

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enjoy those first few sips.

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Finally, allow yourself to feel the way you

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feel.

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There are no bad feelings.

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I know I've asked you to understand some

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concepts, and perhaps even change your relationship to

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them, but how and when you do that

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is up to you, or if you do

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that.

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When our bodies don't feel sacred, when we're

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frustrated by the changes in them or the

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limits that they have, it sucks.

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It doesn't feel good, and allowing yourself to

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acknowledge that fact and comfort yourself however you

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like is sacred work too.

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Life is like a cell with permeable edges

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and various moving parts.

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That's what creating your own body theology is

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like, and that's the dance that is understanding

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your own body theology, and just how sacred

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your body really is.

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